I don't care who you are, where you live, or what you do, the unexpected should be expected by all of us. Take the Amish, for example. They don't drive cars, don't have telephones, and in most cases, live a lifestyle that is pretty secluded from the rest of the world. And yet, six months ago, some lunatic walked into an Amish school in Pennsylvania and shot ten people. That school was torn down, and Today's USA Today has a story about the one built to replace it. I thought it served as a good reminder that, despite our best efforts, bad things sometimes happen. How well we (or our families) cope, depends on the steps we've taken in advance to put our affairs in order.